I am done with Tinder.  Nothing can convince me that the site is full or perverted crazies that are so hard up that they are not able to function in the real dating world.  I had made plans with a guy named Joey for a nice dinner and movie.  He just had to ruin it all by texting me this afternoon that he admitingly is somewhat perverted.  I had to take a step back because who the hell would admit that they are a perv?  Well this guy did.
  So my response was, "WAWAWAW Thanks for the heads up, See ya kid."  And poof just like that no dinner, no movie and no date. I actually think it was honorable that he had the guts to admit it to me. I actually feel sad for  these young lads and I use that word sparingly and comparatively.  These are men trapped in a world of insecurities where sex to them is a prize if they can get it.  Many probably can't.  Their self esteem is tarnished probably by some traumatic childhood experience or controlling psychopathic mother.  Maybe they are starting their coming our party with one more shebang..  Who knows and I seriously don't care.  Although I am starting to wonder if Tinder may be such a safe place to begin with.  These men are masters at manipulating during texting.  They can find out as much as you were are willing to tell them with smiley faces, sad faces, winks, kisses, roses and much more.  The one single  question which could be a huge red flag is a request for pictures.  Why do they want those pictures.  If there are pics on Tinder why ask for more pics?  To justify if you exist or are they are pornographer with an adobe Photoshop waiting to create the next big MILF Porn Star.  Don't laugh.  Shit like this happens. You just never know what kind of lurking sociopath, narcissistic genius may be Tinderizing your meat,  And I say that not to be sexist and gross but to get the message that Tinder may be more then full of creeps but very dangerous men.